Here it is 3 days into 2012, it seems that the older i get the faster time seems to slip by. There is actually a formula I found that puts this into perspective i'll share it with you on here one day soon. The thing on my mind as I blog tonight is that we are all different. We all have our own inner lives, our inner struggles or secrets that we don't allow out into the mainstream world of our work or family or friends. We appear to be "normal " on the outside but we could be hiding pain on the inside. I have developed a new perspective on this...never pass judgement or come to a conclusion about someone, their attitude or behavior until you take this into consideration. They may be suffering or struggling with something on the inside and that may be the time when they really just need you to be a friend. I will blog more about this as I continue to explore this more positive avenue in my life.
rb40
You're right about everyone being different, and I definitely don't like it when someone judges me, therefore, I do not judge. You never know what someone's situation is, even if they're a friend of many years, and I truly believe that no one person knows everything about another person. I believe we all struggle with our inner most secrets, thoughts, and demons and that we may never feel comfortable enough to show our true selves. It is very difficult to confide in anyone these days, because there is a fear of how we will be judged. I still maintain be true to thyself, and don't allow anyone change who we are. We all have our good days, bad days, and down right silly days. Just because you met me on a bad day, it doesn't mean that I'm a bad person. It just means that you need to meet me again, or maybe a few times, to see who I truly am. Everyone deserves at least that.
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